The Gigster

Nominated

2012-02-05T22:37:00.000-05:00

Ok, I would like to thank my friend, Lisa, for kicking my hiney into gear. It's been awhile since I posted. I believe the rules of the nomination are I must thank my nominator and then share seven things about myself that others may not be aware of. I've met the first requirement and now I proceed with the second.

1. Remember Brooke Sheilds from the height of her popularity in the late seventies and eighties? Well, I used to covet those eyebrows. I would lock myself in my bathroom, take my pencil and draw a unibrow on myself. It didn't even dawn on me to use a brow pencil instead of my No. 2 pencil. Yeah, that's how clever I was.

2. I speak Chinglish and bad Chinglish at that. Except for my family most non-Chinese speakers who hear me converse in Chinese think I'm devinely fluent. What they are actually hearing is a level of Cantonese that most Hong Kong grade schoolers would tease and guffaw about endlessly. Sorry, Gi, I'm afraid weekend Chinese school is in your near future.

3. When hubby snores exceptionally loud I squeeze his nostrils shut until the noise stops. What? Like you've never done this before. I'm certain it creates no lasting brain damage. He's fine. Really.

4. I secretly wish to be a hip fashionable mom but know that I'm not even remotely orbiting around that galaxy. My jeans never fit flatteringly on my 45 year old body. Could it be that my muffin top is bigger than my legs are long? Help, Stacey and Clinton!!!

5. I dream of living in a quiet rural area leaving the hustle and bustle of south Florida behind. Calling all North Carolina mountain cabins---one LAN system anlyst, school teacher and sassy pants ready for immediate occupancy!

6. I fancy opening up my own homey cafe serving my fave desserts and coffee. I could bake my days away while hubby entertained the patrons.

7. I didn't feel strongly maternal until well into my thirties. Late bloomer I guess. Never was too disappointed that I didn't have a bio child. Look what the universe brought us---Gi---the eternal ray of sunshine in our life.

There you have it. The selective confessions of an adoptive mom. Thank you, Lisa, for listing me as one of your nominees.

Christmas Holiday 2011

2012-01-07T07:13:00.000-05:00

Munch with some toys from Santa

posing for Auntie Sara in her "Santa" dress

posing for Auntie Sara

with Poh Poh

with Gon Gon

posing with Santa at Miss Donna's house

Santa really did come!!!

sharing a strawberry shake with Daddy at the grand opening of Gimme-a-Burger

Uncle Mark and Auntie Sara visit with Vovo Joe Joe at the rehab center

Uncle Mark is the greatest! He painted a mural of a mermaid in Gi's bathroom.

visit to the Norton Museum of Art---thanks Auntie Jessie

enjoying a nice Cuban dinner with Uncle Mark and Auntie Sara

Christmas day dinner

picking strawberries and tomatoes at a local farm

Bikinis and Underwear

2011-12-26T22:37:00.001-05:00

Several days ago the three of us are saying good-bye to our good friends who are backing out of our driveway to head home. Hubby skips on over to the mailbox to retrieve our mail. Munch is in my arms waving wildly to her buddy, Alex, as he drives away with his daddy. Hubby then skims through the various postal pieces and suddenly pauses at the Victoria Secret holiday catalog clutched in his hands. We chuckle at how the catalog is addressed to him as hubby flips through the pages. Then, unexpectedly, Munch squirms out of my arms, lands on her feet, snatches the catalog out of Hubby's hands and races back into the house all the while exclaiming that she wants that "book." Hubs and I look at each other in momentary disbelief, snicker loudly then head on in also. A block of time elapses and Munch is still quiet and presumably in her room. I stick my head in expecting to see Munch engaged in some play activity. What I saw equally shocked and amused me. The scenario has Munch kneeling against her bed slowly and meticulously turning each and every page of the VS catalog that she placed on top of her mattress. So engrossed she was with the glamourous content, she didn't even notice my intruding head by her doorway. I report back to Hubs of this peculiar incident. We both have a good laugh and think no more of it. Day 2---we catch Munch AGAIN quietly perusing the catalog then daintily placing the revered booklet on her shelf where she keeps all things loved and cherished. Still Hubs and I keep quiet. Day 3---I am working on the computer as Munch sashays in with the catalog in her tiny hands. She parks herself beside my chair, opens the catalog to the shoe section (yes, people, I didn't know this but VS actually sells shoes among other things). "Mommy which shoes do you like the best?" I point to a pair of brown flat boots. "Those are nice, Mommy. Do you know which pair Vovo Lydia likes?" I shake my head prompting an all-knowing smile from Gi. "She likes these, Mommy." Munch then points to a pair of stilleto heeled thigh high boots in turquois suede. Really? Would my 80 year old MIL actually select such a pair of shoes? And why is my daughter whipping out the catalog to share with various family members without Hubs and I even noticing such as act? No longer able to contain my curosity I ask Munch why she likes the booklet so much. "Cause, Mommy, I love bikinis and underwear and and and this book has lots of bikinis and underwear." Why, of course! Bikinis and underwear. Why didn't I see the logic in this (not)? Munch rushes out of the room and comes back several minutes later wearing considerably less clothes. She has now donned a mismatched bikini set. Extending her arms out to the sides and bending one knee, Munch proclaims---"See, Mommy, I love bikinis and underwear!"

Priorities

2011-12-16T12:27:00.000-05:00

Wednesday nights have become girls night for Munch and I. Daddy plays basketball with his co-workers then heads over to Vovo Lydia to have dinner with her. So Munch and I are left to do our mommy-daughter thing once a week. This past Wednesday night, Gi and I are munching on our mac-n-cheese and shooting the breeze about school. I ask her what is her favorite thing to do there.

Hey, tell Mommy what's your favorite thing to do in class.

Ah, Mommy, I like eating lunch with all my friends.

Uh, ok, well what is your next favorite thing?

Going out to the park (Gi-ism for playground).

Oh really. Ok, what is your next favorite thing to do other than lunch and playground time?

Hmmm, I like going home with you, Mommy. Oh and I like math and science too.

Whew! I breathed a big sigh of relief when Munch finally mentioned an academic subject. Here I am thinking my daughter will list her favorite subject matters like reading, math, computers, etc. But noooo she gives me lunch, playground, and going home. In that order. Really??? Doesn't she know that she is the daughter of a teacher? Oh such priorities five year olds have!

Happy Thanksgiving

2011-11-24T21:33:00.000-05:00

Ok, how goofy is my daughter??? Only in south Florida can you throw on a bathing suit and play in the spa before the big Thanksgiving dinner.

another try at a family shot

There is nothing like a deep fried turkey that has been sitting in an apple cider brine for two days. The Barefoot Contessa's spicy sausage dressing is delish.

Many thanks to Auntie Jessie for the yummy pies. Vovo Lydia brought over decadent brigadeiros.

October Already???

2011-10-30T16:31:00.000-04:00

Gosh, is it really the end of October already? Halloween is just around the corner. A lot has happened since my last check-in. My dear father-in-law suffered a stroke back in late September and is still under daily medical care. He is making progress. I have no doubt that he will get back to his baseline and continue to dish out his special brand of Portuguese stubborness for years to come. Speedy recovery, Vovo Joe Joe!

Gon Gon is under house arrest DeOliveira style. He is under our care and supervision while Poh Poh lives it up for a month in Macau. While Gon Gon spends his days with us, Poh Poh is enjoying her extended visit with her mom and family in the gambling capital of the East. Wishing Poh Poh safe return to us in mid November.

As for Munch, she is officially 32 lbs and 39 3/4 inches. Whew, finally on the charts at 19th percentile! She's girlie as ever and still sporting her favorite accessory---sassiness. At the ripe old age of five, Munch now needs to wear glasses for classroom activities due to a little bit of astigmatism. No worries though. She loves her Barbie glasses - one in pink and one in teal blue.

Hubs is great although a bit on the tired side what with worrying about his dad for the last several weeks. On the up side, Vovo Lydia is driving again after many years of being driven around. After two refresher courses with a professional instructor, Vovo Lydia is out and about in her red Jetta. She drives to the rehab center everyday to keep my FIL company. Vroom, vroom, Vovo Lydia, we are so proud of you!

bratty witch of the East

getting ready to go trick-a-treating in downtown Delray Beach

my little Einstein

getting ready for the walkathon at her school

enjoying some Italian ice after the walkathon

class pic on walkathon day

It's My Birthday...

2011-09-19T10:08:00.000-04:00

Have you ever heard this come out of a grown man's mouth consistently for four days straight? If you have you are likely bobbing your head up and down sympathizing with me right now. If you haven't you are cautiously not married or are lucky enough to have snatched yourself a modest sensible spouse. Hubby started his birthday weekend this past Thursday (the actual date of his birthday) by taking some time off from work. And like an out-of-control runaway train, Hubby worked his birthday to his advantage.

Ana, it's my birthday. Do I have to finish the dishes tonight?

It's my birthday. Can you make me some tea? My throat hurts.

I need to sleep in. Please don't wake me up early cause it's my birthday.

Ooo, ooo rub my back please... it's my birthday.

Can we have steak tonight? It's birthday weekend after all.

Honey, give Gi a bath tonight please please. You can do it this one time since it's my birthday.

Gi, it's Daddy's birthday...go get me a beer from the fridge, ok?

This morning, Munch wakes up and sleepily asks me if birthday weekend is over. With great relief I let her know that her daddy is back to his regularly scheduled programming. One year older and decidedly just as annoying but we love you to pieces, Daddy-O.

Me Time

2011-08-30T13:06:00.000-04:00

Don't get me wrong. I'm not complaining. I feel very blessed to have been a stay-at-home mom to Munch for the past few years. I've watched her grow and blossom from a front row seat. I have Hubby to thank for that. Being a SAH mom is a job best appreciated only after many years of trials and tribulations. I fall into that imperfect catagory. I started out feeling overwhelmed and vociferous about the lack of time for myself. I conveniently took it out on Hubby who was probably just as if not more overwhelmed and underprepared than me as a parent. Me-time for me has now taken a definitively different turn. For example, me-time can be found in mowing the lawn in 98 degree weather. Really which family member is actually going to leave the inside of an air conditioned home to come out and demand quality time with you? No one! Not Hubby not Munch. Go to your dental appointment with glee. That's right, you read correctly. No one, no matter how much they love you and require your attention, will want to make this office visit with you. So enjoy your often sporadic adult interaction with your hygenist and dentist. They are such good listeners and exhibit just the right amount of empathy. For an hour, you get to sprawl out on a comfy dental chair and listen to new age music as another adult chats with you and cleans your teeth. Have a long list of grocery items to get? Selflessly offer to take on this tedious task by yourself. Hubby won't be any wiser to your covert strategy to gain more me-time at your local supermarket. He will think he won the honey-do-list lottery and will gladly stay home with the baby. Go down every aisle and look at every clearance item. No hurry no worry. After about 2 hours of "shopping" you can safely head home ready with some stories of how the deli line was so long or how few cash registers were open. You see that elusive me-time is there. I just have to recognize it and work it to my advantage.

First Day of Kindergarten

2011-08-24T13:47:00.000-04:00

Hubs and I couldn't be more proud of Munch! No crying, clinging or hesitation as we left Gi to her first day of kindergarten yesterday.

Fresh Mountain Air Does a Body Good

2011-08-16T23:10:00.000-04:00

attempting to fish in Lake Keowee

3Ds in Issa Queena Falls

Munch decorating her own birthday cupcake at the cabin

presenting waterfall Buddha

at Stumphouse Tunnel---the tunnel that goes nowhere

celebrating Gi's 5th bday at the cabin

beautiful Falls Park in Greenville

down at the lake riding on top of a giant piece of driftwood

sharing a strawberry shake on our way down to Brunswick

another celebration of Gi's bday in an Italian restaurant in Brunswick

looking up at the cabin

first and only fish that hubby caught

big thanks to Uncle Mark and Auntie Sara for having us

Gi going down to the dock from the cabin

first family dinner at the cabin

Gi entertaining herself at a local Savannah hospital while Vovo is being checked out by the ER doc

pitstop for lunch on our way up to Savannah

fishing and relaxation

What does a trip to the ER, a volcanic spousal meltdown in a Walmart parking lot and a chilly waterfall splash all have in common? Our family road trip to the moutains of South Carolina that's what. We survived and we had a fab time despite all the ups and downs of family travels.

No Negotiations

2011-08-01T21:25:00.000-04:00

Auntie Sara turned this polo into a dress by adding a skirt with a cute white trim.

Auntie Sara did the same thing here with a matching fringe. Big thanks to our favorite auntie.

Don't worry, ladies and gentlemen, I am not about to launch into a discourse about the nation's debt ceiling. I'm talking about school dress code and uniforms, people! That's right! I'm talking about a more harmonious start to mornings come August 22nd. I'm talking about lower blood pressure for middle age moms like myself. I'm talking about less laundry and more money in my mostly empty pocket. People, people, people, I'm just giddy with delight! Come the end of this month, my fashionista Munch will march off to kindergarten to a school that has and will enforce a dress code. Ahhhh, the smell of victory is sweet even if it is at the expense of my daughter. I will no longer have to neogotiate, plead or demand what is appropriate to wear to school. My little Munch will have exactly five choices to select from no more no less. Uniforms, I love you. You make my life simpler. You are the great equalizer between aged mom and fiesty, stubborn five year old.

Summer Fun 2011

2011-07-21T21:32:00.001-04:00

Daddy and Munch

Poh Poh and Gi

Mommy and baby

Vovos and Gi

backyard pose

swimming with Uncle Mark

vovos in their condo

3Ds at the vovos

girls night with Shayla and Kayla

another great family dinner

Oh boy, it's been awhile since I've checked in with news. The vovos are settling in nicely in their Delray condo. Gi is finishing up summer camp next week and enjoying her daily visits with Uncle Mark and Auntie Sara. Hubby is working hard and enjoying his parents' permanent transition to south Florida. And I'm trying to wrap my head around the fact that Munch will be starting kindergarten come this August. Looking forward to a road trip to South Carolina with hubby and baby. Life is moving along in the D household. I'm grateful and feel blessed. A big smooshy kiss to Auntie Sara for another round of great photos.

3 Moms

2011-05-08T21:29:00.000-04:00

singing happy birthday to Auntie Jessie

nice to have everyone under one roof for mother's day celebration

going to mother's day tea at the preschool with my two favorite girls

Gi and her two favorite teachers at mother's day tea

Finally all three moms can celebrate under one roof---my mom, my mother-in-law and me! It was an extra special mother's day for us as my mother-in-law, Vovo Lydia, is finally close by and was able to join in the festivities. We also got to celebrate, good friend, Auntie Jessie's birthday. We had a great day and are very thankful for all that we have.

One Month Anniversary

2011-05-01T13:15:00.000-04:00

Gi and the vovos before the Easter program

Today marks the one month anniversary of the vovos' move to Delray Beach, Florida! We are so happy and relieved that they are finally close by. On most days we have been busy helping the vovos get settled into their newly renovated condo and sharring lots of meals together. Vovo Lydia is now the official nail painter for Munch. And Vovo Joe Joe is still the bothersome "octopus" when Munch goes swimming. We also need to thank Poh Poh and Gon Gon for helping the vovos make their transition into the leisurely life in Delray Beach. All is well so far. Hubs and I feel blessed to have both sets of grandparents in Gi's life.

Gold is King

2011-02-24T12:50:00.001-05:00

Finally the pestering can stop. My itty bitty Munch received her "promotion" last night in her karate class. She is now officially a walking, sass-talking gold belt little powerhouse. This girl is in karate heaven after weeks of drilling and grilling clueless me about the day and time of her coveted promotion. Typical car conversation for the past two weeks:

Mommy, when will I get my gold belt?
Not for another two to three weeks, ok?
You mean tomorrow???
No, silly girl, it's going to be about 14-21 days from now.
After tomorrow?
No.
Way after tomorrow?
Yes, kind of.
That's too long! I want my gold belt now! Tell Sensei Dave I want my gold belt now!
You don't just get a gold belt because you want it. You have to earn it, work hard, pay attention.
Well, well, well...I've been working hard, Mommy!
That's right, you have been working hard and you will get your gold belt soon.
Tomorrow, Mommy?

Various forms of the above conversation ran its course in the last couple of weeks. I'm now going to enjoy this hiatus since Munch won't be getting her next promotion until at least 24 weeks from now.

Munch celebrated her promotion with a mini ice cream cake and got a new pair of light-up sneakers.

Sensei Dave tying on the gold belt at the end of class.

Miss Goldie

30 and 38

2011-02-14T10:06:00.000-05:00

It's a milestone at the D household---Munch has finally reached 30 lbs and is almost 38 inches! Boy oh boy with foodies as parents this child sure takes her time growing. We celebrated the other night with a cake of Gi's choosing. Of course, Sassy-Pants picked a vanilla one oozing with sweet frosting. Since February marks her 4 1/2 years on earth, we also let Munch blow out 4 1/2 candles. She told Hubs and I that she needed absolutely no help in blowing out the candles and that we were to give her all of the flower frosting on the cake. Well, enough said. We love the Munch and happily gave her all the calorie-laden frosting on the cake and then some. Keep those pounds and inches coming, baby girl!!!

Universoul Circus

2011-02-06T19:52:00.001-05:00

Hubs and Munch on an elephant ride

Is anyone surprised that Hubs is part of the clown show?

Hubs and three other audience members rely on each other to stay lying down

Yesterday, Poh Poh and Gon Gon treated us to a wonderful outing. We all piled into the car and headed to Miami Gardens to see the Atlanta based Universoul Circus. What raucous fun! The performers came from all over the world---Cuba, South Africa, Gambon, the Caribbeans, Columbia, Chile, France just to name a few. Munch and Hubs took an elephant ride around the ring. Then off went Hubs with the clown to do a funny skit with three other audience members. This did not sit well with Munch. As the friendly clown led Hubs into the ring, Gi broke out in tears thinking that her daddy was being taken away by a stranger. It took a few minutes of comforting before Munch could enjoy the show again. After almost three hours of entertainment, the show came to an end. We capped our day off with an early dinner at Silver Pond and a round of Chinese grocery shopping. What a great family day! Life is good and we are most thankful.

Hello Mr. Rabbit!

2011-01-31T12:27:00.000-05:00

Some of the little firecrackers who posed for us towards the end of the fun evening.

I am surrounded by cuteness!

time to make some bunny ears

Hubs was more excited about the fireworks than the kids. Big thank you to the R family for supplying the fireworks.

master wonton maker Big Amelie

another master wonton maker Madi
big thanks to Mama Lisa for supplying these wonder pictures

still another master wonton maker Munch
two more master wonton makers are Alex and Brea (both not pictured here)

This past Saturday night, we got off to an early start to Chinese New Year. Our family and good friends gathered at our house to ring in the year of the rabbit which, by the way, doesn't start till this Thursday. Hubs and I feel so blessed to celebrate another year with the love of our life (sometimes pain in the you-know-what), Munch! The kids had a wild blast complete with fireworks, a dragon dance, bunny ears and wonton making. We must thank everyone for coming and bringing such righteous desserts! A special thanks to Poh Poh for helping the Ds plan and execute the menu for the evening. We miss the vovos and hope that by next year they will become a regular fixture in our celebrations. Gung hay fat choy to all of our family and friends near and far.

Happy Birthday Gon Gon

2011-01-23T21:39:00.000-05:00

Ok, this is what happens when one of your parents celebrate his birthday according to the lunar calendar---you miss his birthday every year unless your mom reminds you weeks in advance that the big day is coming. Well, it happened again this year. The 3Ds once again let Gon Gon's birthday pass oblivious to the fact that this year, his big day fell on January 4th. So we had a belated celebration at our house complete with an Italian feast. Yes, an Italian feast because Gon Gon eats home-cooked Chinese every day and he loves a good western meal whenever the opportunity arises. Gi and I made a red velvet cake. Gon Gon never passes up a sweet dessert...very atypical for an elderly Chinese man. Gi elbowed her way to the front of the cake when it came time for the birthday medley and strong-armed Gon Gon into letting her blow out the candle. We ended the evening with a full belly and a quiet satisfaction that we helped Gon Gon ring in his 74th year of life. Happy birthday, Gon Gon!

December Festivities

2010-12-31T10:36:00.000-05:00

some goodies that Santa left for Gi

Christmas dinner

Christmas Eve dinner

Munch painting with Uncle Mark

making cookies at Melissa's house

having fun with Devin

relaxing with Elliot

Alexis and Gi in between cookie making session

posing with Uncle Mark and Poh Poh

posing with Uncle Mark and Gon Gon

home from school with a frosty snack

super buddy Brea

Christmas luncheon in Gi's class

Christmas book exchange in Gi's class

Gi-size Christmas tree

dressing up for Auntie Sara's photo shoot

very proud of her boots from Vovo Joe Joe and Vovo Lydia

Happy new year to all of our family and friends!!!

So Far in December

2010-12-06T15:35:00.000-05:00

We had the pleasure of meeting Hubs' cousins (Annie and Clayton) from Brazil. They are happy newlyweds.

After attending two Little Dragon class, Gi got her white belt. This child was estatic!

Giving Sensei Cara double high-fives after being given her white belt.

white belt Gigi

Gi reading to Mommy and Daddy at B&N

November Happenings

2010-11-26T17:00:00.001-05:00

Gigi and Sammy posing lakeside

Sammy and Gigi going canoing with Uncle Mark behind Sammy's Melrose house

birthday girl, Sammy, getting ready to blow out her Jesse hat cake

getting an excellent demonstration of the best blueberry scones from Carol and Dick

I'm ready for my close-up, Mr. DeMille.

hard at work applying make-up

Voila!

glamour girls

Pilgrim Gigi

Gigi and her classmates performing a Thanksgiving medley for the parents

Gigi at her Thanksgiving feast at school

Hubs got his deep fried turkey this year---delicious!!!

Gigi got to meet Sammy's Melrose buddies, Coty and Hannah.

Halloween 2010

2010-11-01T17:25:00.001-04:00

Mommy, is it dark yet? Munch utters this question broken-record style in the hopes of getting me out the door for some candy acquisition fun. Finally, 7:00 p.m. rolls around and I whisk Munch out the door grateful that I no longer have to hear the repeated whining. We power down our street successfully accumulating sweet treats of all kinds. About 6 houses into this Halloween tradition, Munch loses her kitty cat composure, limply hands her candy bucket to me and demands that we return home promptly so she can be the distributor of delightful sweets to all Halloween participants. Really??? Did my child just tell me that she would rather pass out candy than receive it? Well, who am I to argue with a four year old? Not wanting to miss this window of opportunity for reduced candy consumption, I oblige my daughter quickly, savoring my good fortune. We return home. Munch takes over candy distribution duty from Daddy. Things go swimmingly well until the bloody-scaly-head-with-a-sword-stuck-in-his-eye trick-or-treater comes walking up to Gi. Munch is horrified and nearly knocks over the bowl of candy sitting on the stool. She buries her face in my chest while Hubs scrambles to stuff some candy into Bloody Head's bag so his horrific-ness could move along. Luckily, Munch recovers quickly barely losing faith in the lustre of candy passing. Yes, another memorable Halloween with our Munch. Wouldn't have it any other way.

Happy Birthday, Avery!

2010-10-31T14:31:00.000-04:00

Just wanted to wish big girl, Avery, a very happy Halloweenish birthday. She is six!

Halloween Dance

2010-10-24T00:14:00.010-04:00

having a hopping good time

ready to dance the night away

the grump-a-lumps set in

time for poopy-face

Like all well laid out plans there are going to be some setbacks. Friday night we had ours with Munch. After talking about the preschool Halloween dance for several days, Gi finally had her opportunity to put on her mermaid costume and dance the night away with her friends at school. We arrive to lively music and a fantastic show of kid-friendly costumes. Munch gets into the spirit and mommy and daddy are relieved that fun is being had. Then almost as if the good-attitude clock struck twelve, Munch turns into a sourpuss never recovering from her downward turn for the rest of the evening. What happened to our cheerful mermaid? Hubs and I go through our mental list of causes. Tired? No because she took a two-hour nap. Hungry? Not likely since she had a big bowl of strawberries and crackers at home. Thirsty? Not really since she refused a sweet cup of lemonade at the dance. What then??? Oh heck, we don't know! What we did learn is that when your child is determined to not have a good time, seize the moment and make a quick exit. Your deep and philosophical discussion about making right choices with your grumpy kid is always better had in the car ride home rather then on the noisy dance floor.

Hubby Turns 45

2010-09-19T07:11:00.004-04:00

Ms. Ericka stopped by last night with a handcrafted Brazilian jersey cake for Hubs.

The three of us celebrated Hubs' actual birthday this past Wednesday with a surf n turf dinner and strawberry shortcake cake.

Poh Poh and Gon Gon took us out to Silver Pond (Hubs' fave Chinese restaurant) last weekend for an early celebration of Hubs' birthday. Father and daughter both enjoy a lobster claw.

Recipe for Mini Toni Soup

2010-09-10T22:49:00.004-04:00

Munch jumps on my lap excitedly and makes her announcement.

Mommy, I'm going to make mini toni soup for Daddy!

Oh, you mean minestrone soup? How do you make it?

Mommy, you put 2 cups of sugar. And noodle and beans and two rice.

Wow, that sounds like a lot of sugar! Are you sure you need that much sugar?

Yes, and you put juice in it.

Hmm, interesting recipe, Gi.

Daddy going to love it. I'm going to make for Daddy in my kitchen cuz he likes mini toni soup. Ok, Mommy?

"I Don't Like Brown People"

2010-08-25T14:41:00.004-04:00

Several months ago, Munch and I were shopping in our local warehouse market when a senior African-American woman pushed her cart slowly past us in the dairy aisle. I was diligently searching for nonfat Greek style yogurt and didn't realize that Munch had been eyeing the elderly shopper. Munch tapped my hand as I was pushing her in the shopping cart and loudly proclaimed that she didn't like brown people. If a 44 year old haggard mom could soil her pants, that would have been the moment to do it. I was mor-ti-fied. My head involuntarily turns to look at the elderly lady who, I imagine, very graciously pretended not to have heard my daughter's innocent but very insensitive comment. For the next few minutes, my daughter and I engage in a frantic dialogue about the right and wrong way to like or dislike somebody. Fast forward to yesterday. The ugly comment rears its head again. This time Munch is watching a Disney program which happens to feature a young African-American actress. Mortified again and mystified also, I reiterate to her what we had discussed before. Why would my child say such a hateful thing? She certainly didn't learn that from Hubs or me. Where is it coming from? Then it dawns on me that this may have a school origin. Upon further probing, Munch shares with me that a very naughty male classmate once teased her about how brown her skin was. My heart broke into a million pieces. Sure, I've been on the receiving end of racist, insensitive remarks almost all of my life. But was I ready for my four year old daughter to possibly have to endure such negative behavior from others? Apparently not. And so I mentally pull myself together. What do I say (other than you should punch that boy in the nose when the teacher is not looking)? What expression should I have on my face?

So J said you have brown skin, huh? So what did you tell him when he said that to you?

I say he hurt my feelings and he not nice!

That's good! You told him how his comments made you feel. What did he say after that?

He not say anything. He look at me and he run around. He run away.

Well, he must have gotten the hint! You know, I notice that you have several brown friends like M. Do you like M?

Yes, her very nice. Her play with me at my house.

Must be pretty cool to have brown skin and to have brown friends, don't you think?

Yes, Mommy.

Besides, maybe J was just jealous of the super tan that you have from swimming so much.

He very jealous, Mommy!

First Day of VPK

2010-08-18T05:14:00.005-04:00

Munch was super excited at home on her first day of vpk yesterday.

But once we got to the classroom, Munch wasn't keen on Mommy leaving her.

Ms. Stephanie to the rescue! She got Munch involved in an activity as I slowly eased my way out of the classroom.

All better with the help of Ms. Stephanie. Munch warmed up to her teachers and classmates and had a wonderful first day in vpk.

Pee-nada and Am-min-nals

2010-08-15T21:42:00.010-04:00

That's Gi-ism for pinata and animals---two things that Munch requested for her 4th birthday celebration. And so our backyard became a barnyard complete with chickens, ducks, goats, sheep, rabbits, piglets and even a miniature horse. The cute critters were a big hit with the junior set along with the dismembering of the horsey pinata. After all the goodies came showering down and were eagerly collected by Gi and her cohorts, the poor, dangling papier mache steed got no rest. The stick kept swinging and the fun continued. Once the barnyard went bye-bye, it was time for a cool down period in the pool. Throughout the entire morning and early part of the afternoon, Munch had great fun with her friends. Hubs and I couldn't be more thankful to have another great year with Gi and grateful for all of our friends and their children and our family. Thank you all for coming out to celebrate with us!

Introducing the New DLR Family

2010-08-08T06:53:00.007-04:00

Mama Kristen with Baby Amelie

proud papa David

the gang with their newest mei mei

After almost a five year wait, our friends, Kristen and David, are finally a family of three. Our core group of adoption friends welcomed the family back last night at PBIA. And let's just say little Miss Amelie is even more adorable in person...scumptious pink cheeks, bright big eyes and chubby little turkey legs. Munch and her buddies, Brea and Alex, acting as junior ambassadors fluttered around and posed with their newest "mei mei." We'd like to send our congrats again to the DLR family---they've just boarded the fastest and most exciting rollercoaster. Enjoy the ride!

Punk-free

2010-07-31T16:29:00.003-04:00

Is it wrong to sit quietly in your darken living room secretly savoring the quiet that surrounds you? I mean I have this silly grin on my face for no other reason then my number one Munch is NOT HERE. I am PUNK-Free tonight thanks to the fabulous Y family! Ohhh to not have to nag Sassy-Pants to eat her healthy foods, read bedtime stories, brush little teeth and wash her wiggly body...it's heavenly! I'm going to sit here for awhile more and imagine that I am that woman in the Dove chocolate commercial...with a swath of satin sheet wrapped around me while soothing wind blows through my hair. Mommyhood sure has its unexpected moments and this is one of them.

Monopoly of Time

2010-07-19T20:58:00.008-04:00

Uncle Mark is king in Gi's world.

Thank you, Auntie Sara, for taking great pics of the family.

jungle girl

Tarzanita

Well, Gi got another super dose of Auntie Sara and Uncle Mark. Sis and Bro came down to visit for a couple of weeks. Munch spent almost every day hanging out with Uncle Mark while Mommy spent some QT with her sister. Gi got some genuine art lessons from Uncle Mark as he is a first rate illustrator and potter. In Gi's world, everything was about Uncle Mark. My girl woke up asking for Uncle Mark and went to bed singing his praises...too funny! Now that auntie and uncle are back in Tallahassee, Munch is pining away for them. Hubby and I give her daily assurances that she will see them in five months time. The only problem is Munch keeps inquiring if five months is tomorrow. Has anyone ever successfully explained the concept of time to a three year old without pulling out what thin remaining hair they have? Probably not and it looks like I will not be the exception either.

Summer Fun

2010-07-03T08:07:00.012-04:00

playdate with Alex and Brea

send-off for Sammy

little bitty basketball

playing beauty salon with Poh Poh

making jewelry with Uncle Mark

hanging out with Gon Gon

Snow White with Bubba the Turtle

pool side

posing for Auntie Sara in her recital dress

Bracelets and Toilets Don't Go Together

2010-06-16T13:31:00.004-04:00

Munch and I stop by a local warehouse market to pick up a few items. We go in. We go out. That's the plan. But the food sample vendors are out and this does not escape Munch's eyes. So Munch directs me to every stainless steel cart for a little snack time. Soon nature calls. We mosey to the large industrial bathroom. Munch obliges cheerfully. Before I can even lift her off the toilet seat, I hear a loud clink. Munch's pink princess bracelet escapes from her tiny wrist and splashes into the toilet bowl. Standing there with her hands still holding her dress up and her princess undies straddled around her ankles, Munch gasps at the tragedy. "Mommy, get it pease, pease!" I stammer about how dirty the toilet is when suddenly the automatic flusher shoots down a herculean rush of water sending the bracelet to potty heaven. Unable to be consoled, Munch's tear ducts open up like the sky. And now one can imagine how the rest of the shopping trip went. And so after a few more laborious rounds of vendor snacks, we leave the store relatively calm and, hopefully, scar-free. I just wonder what the outcome would have been if my Munch had dropped her teddy.

Ready for World Cup

2010-06-10T16:53:00.010-04:00

with Coach Stephen and soccer buddy Brooke

little soccer beauties

making Daddy proud by wearing the Brazilian uniform
(big thanks to Sammy PJ for passing the outfit over to Gi)

kicking the ball as hard as she can

Munch is definitely not a natural at soccer but she is having great fun.

listening to Coach Stephen

with her team mates

I signed Munch up for a one week soccer camp at a nearby rec center. She is having loads of fun especially since her little school buddy is in it also. Hubs whipped out the "official" Brazilian soccer uniform the other day for Munch to wear to practice. It was tough marketing that outfit---no frills, sparkles, rainbows or the color purple, all standard Gi requirements for ready wear. But we presevere and Munch dons it on every morning with the promise that she can change into her rainbow shorts when she comes home. Such girliness! Nonetheless, Hubs is very proud of his little soccer girl.

Hello Amelie

2010-06-08T21:07:00.002-04:00

At long last, our friends, Kristen and Dave, received their referral today of their gorgeous baby daughter, Amelie. Congratulations! Amelie was well worth the wait. Oh those cheeks!

Welcome Home R Family

2010-06-07T11:17:00.005-04:00

proud papa and momma with Alex arriving

handsome!

fast friends

Last night was a special evening. The three of us along with some good friends made our way to the airport to welcome home another adoption family. Congratulations, Castor, Joyce and Alex! Munch was immediately taken with Alex, a bright eyed sociable 3 year old. They even exchanged a friendly kiss! So adorable. We're so happy for this brand new family and can't wait for future playdates.

First Dance Recital

2010-06-05T20:22:00.009-04:00

Munch is fourth from the left

with dancing buddy, Kathleen

Munch Kathleen Addison

strike a pose

Munch bumped into fellow mei mei, Avery, at the rehearsal.

ice cream chow down with Sammy after the recital

Munch had her first dance recital today! Her little group danced to "Baby Ballerinas." Oh such cuteness on stage! Enjoy the pics.

Heavenly Discussion

2010-06-01T13:09:00.002-04:00

Munch and I were driving to the mall this morning. During our usual car chatter, Gi asked about Daniel again. In simplistic terms I told her how Daniel's heart needed fixing and that sometimes even the best doctors can't fix everything the way we expect. After a small pause, Munch's eyes lit up. "Oh but Daniel is in heaven. Fifi (our greyhound who passed away 2 years ago) is in heaven, Mommy. She going to lick Daniel's face alot!" Such surprising sweetness from a three year old. I'm so proud of her.

Daniel is in Heaven

2010-05-30T09:18:00.003-04:00

Little Daniel passed away last night. We are devastated by this news. I can't even imagine losing a child. Please send the Murphy family your love and prayers.

It's All About the Characters

2010-05-23T22:02:00.009-04:00

look at the sophisticated crossed legs

the Mulan kiss

Mulan saved the day

Snow White squeezed Munch in before going off to her water break.

Hubs did all the heavy lifting

With a busted knee, a mighty sore belly and two soon to expire tickets, Hubs and I braved another trip to the Orlando area so Munch could get her fill of all things Disney again. This time it was all about the characters. Munch pestered us for an autograph book and a special pen even before we reached mile marker 15 on 192. Once inside DW, Munch exhibited uncanny patience in waiting to be snapped picture perfect with each character and gathering their signatures. Same thing at Epcot...relentless pleads to meet and greet Minnie and Donald. Typical futile conversation between members of the D household:

"But, Gigi, don't you want to see Nemo and ride the clammobile??!!"

"No, where Minnie and Donald?"

"Hey, how about we visit China and Japan? Wouldn't that be cool?"

"No, Daddy! I want Minnie and Donald!"

Hubs and I hold strong even though the whining is persistent and done in 91 degree humidity. We firmly plant ourselves in the Japan pavilion to watch the Taiko drummers. Gi momentarily forgets about Minnie and Donald and is entertained by the hardworking musicians. I'm sure the $3.75 cup of rainbow ice being hand fed to her also greased our way to this fleeting moment of parental peace. Next, China! While waiting for the acrobatic show to start, Gi and I, sans Hubs who is off to the bathroom again to recuperate, wander into the Chinese store. Upon coming out, we spot Mulan! I'm very pleased and desperately pray that she doesn't go off to her water break and leave my Munch waiting. Gi, with new found sophistication, waits for her turn and is rewarded handsomely not only with autograph and picture opportunity but also with a gracious red kiss on the cheek. There IS a stop-your-kid-from-whining goddess and her name is Miss Mulan! Munch is happy as a clam and lets her middle age, heat debilitated, aching parents watch the acrobatic show in relative peace. We end our visit to Epcot with a 45 minute wait to meet and greet all the MMCH characters. Munch was in heaven and so were we because Hubs and I can now drag our hot tired butts back to our hotel room for some much needed R&R. Mega park visits---not for the faint hearted when traveling with a soon-to-be four year old and one parent who can not lift anything heavy for six weeks. Kisses to my hubs who took on any extra duties that required lifting the Munch whether it was potty breaks, getting a better view or just plain hugging.

Send Your Love and Support

2010-05-18T10:29:00.002-04:00

If you read this blog, I am asking that you send all the love and positive vibes you can to the Murphy family. Their newly adopted toddler son, Daniel, is currently undergoing corrective heart surgery down in Miami. His recovery is somewhat touch-and-go right now as complications have arisen. Daniel is a strong little fighter and his parents are equally strong and faithful. As you go about your normal daily routine, think of Daniel often. He's a great kid with a wonderful family. Thank you!

Happy Mother's Day

2010-05-06T11:57:00.007-04:00

enjoying Mother's Day tea at Munch's school

Look at the flower arrangement!

I just want to wish all the mommies that I know a fabulous Mother's Day. July 23, 2007 was the day that I became a full fledge mommy and it has been a wonderfully bumpy ride ever since. I must thank my mighty Munch for keeping me active, compassionate and humble. I'd like to share a little Q&A project that Munch did at school with her teachers.

My Mom

My mom is 5 years old.

My mom is prettiest when her eyes blink in the morning.

My mom likes to make cereal, popcorn.

My mom always says, come here.

My mom is funny when she and Daddy laugh at the table.

Hugs and kisses to all the mommies!

Hello, Disney!

2010-05-03T13:58:00.009-04:00

ready to conquer Disney

teacup fun

checking out Minnie Mouse's refrigerator

newly glamorous as Minnie Mouse

Tinkerbell encounter

fun with Goofy

bug girl

First of all, we'd like to thank the Y family again for making this wonderful trip possible for Munch. Brea's grandparents, John and Vicki, treated us to a wonderful two days at Disney World and Animal Kingdom in celebration of Brea's 4th birthday. The three BFFs enjoyed themselves tremendously as well as the adults. Happy birthday, Brea!

No Elbows

2010-04-11T21:30:00.007-04:00

Hubs and I are tired. We have just come home from a Panthers game with Munch. Munch loves the hockey experience and comes home in a good mood. She hops into bed without protest and I finish reading a Maisy book to her. Before I step out of her room to make way for Hubs to read to her, she instructs me to inform Hubs that he is not to put his elbows on her pillow. I am amused by this edict but nevertheless assure her of my duty to remind Hubs about the no-elbows rule. Hubs walks in and before he can even sit on Munch's bed she boldly tells him that he is in no way to lay his elbow on her pillow. Hubs looks at her defiantly, walks over to the head of her bed, bends his arms upright and drops his elbows dramatically on her pillow like a showy pro wrestler does to his disabled opponent. You see, Hubs thought he was being funny with his one-and-only child. What he got was merciless sobbing followed by a flowing river of tears from dear daughter. In an effort to make amends, shocked Hubs asks Munch why he is not to lay his elbow on her pillow. Her response---her purple pillow is very fluffy and soft and when Daddy puts his elbow on it the pillow becomes hard. There. You got it, Daddy? No elbows on the pillow. Ever.

Spring Time in Tallahassee

2010-04-04T14:16:00.027-04:00

Gi had a hopping good time playing airplane with fellow Chinese toddler, Ethan at the Easter party.

enjoying a nice game of "kick the flat ball" with Uncle Mark and Mommy

kayaking with Uncle Mark

family portrait at Mission San Luis

Dorito crumbs all around Munch's mouth at Mission San Luis

An interpreter at Mission San Luis is demonstrating how the Spaniards made empanadas. After observing this demonstration for several minutes, Munch exclaims loudly that she is hungry.

inside the counsel house at Mission San Luis

posing in the fire pit at Mission San Luis

We went shopping for the Easter party at a Costco in Tallahassee. Of course Munch easily convinced her daddy to get her a large cup of soft serve. All smiles when it comes to ice cream.

downing a small piece of hotdog before being granted her wish for ice cream at a Tallahassee Costco

family shot at Tom Brown Park

ever the swing hog at Tom Brown Park

Hubs working on getting Uncle Mark and Auntie Sara HD on their tv

posing with her favorite uncle at Oven Park

beautiful Azaleas all over Oven Park

swinging in a beautiful garden

Oven Park has beautiful flowering Camelias. Munch was estatic when we allowed her to pick some off the ground.

Munch, a flower enthusiast herself, couldn't believe how many amazing flowers were at Oven Park.

posing with a sculpture by Uncle Mark in the front yard

This is Munch's tai chi pose.

Auntie Sara gave Munch this set of pretty barrettes. Munch was in heaven!

Tallahassee is hilly to say the least. A little more effort is required of Munch.

cozy in her blanket before taking her nightly bath at Auntie Sara and Uncle Mark's house

We must thank Uncle Mark and Auntie Sara again for putting up with the 3Ds for an entire week. Auntie Sara, ever the professional shutterbug, snapped all of these pictures of us. There was even an Easter party in honor of the mighty Munch. We had a fantastic time and look forward to seeing auntie and uncle again in the summer. Happy Easter to all of our family members and friends near and far.

Miss O is Three

2010-03-27T14:27:00.008-04:00

Gi loved the Mickey Mouse stickers she got from Olivia and made sure Mommy took a picture of them. Munch hesitated for a while when Daddy asked her if she would share a sticker with him. Ouch, Daddy!

three budding artists

Birthday girl, Olivia, in heart dress examines her beautiful bday cake.

three amigas armed with their best silly faces

Munch and Brea got to meet Olivia's new baby sister, little Ava.

Munch is snoozing right now because she just had a fabulous time helping Olivia celebrate her third birthday. Mighty Munch met up with her buddy, Brea, to welcome Miss O into Club Three. A sunny good time was had by all. A big thank you to the St.Ans for having us. Happy birthday, Olivia!

Easter Egg Hunt 2010

2010-03-25T12:33:00.001-04:00

Easter Show

2010-03-24T10:23:00.003-04:00

Well I can't believe it. Another Easter show has come upon us. Munch performed last night with her classmates at her school's annual Easter program. The celebratory song was "Alive, Alive, Alive." The highlight for Hubs and I was seeing our little Munch perform. For Munch I think it was getting to wear her "party" dress and "tap" shoes. What a girlie girl!

Coxinha a la Ana

2010-03-18T12:06:00.003-04:00

Well, after being married to Hubs for almost 11 years, it finally dawned on me that I could try to make some of Hubs favorite native Brazilian dishes. Several nights ago, I attempted to make this Brazilian popular dish, coxinha. It is basically a croquette filled with a cheesy chicken filling. Hubs and Munch gobbled it up. Now I must get the opinion of my m-i-l. Vovo Lydia, what do you think?

Incoming

2010-03-15T14:02:00.003-04:00

Munch has been asking for a baby brother, baby sister or dog lately. She commented the other day that when Hubs and I got older, she will have a new mommy and daddy so she can get a baby brother or sister. Perfectly logical in her mind! She almost seemed perplexed when we explained to her that we were the only mommy and daddy that she would have from now on.

Well, it's about time! My good friends from the adoption community are finally seeing the light at the end of the tunnel. Of course, the M family already brought home their super cute little man, Daniel, several months ago. Next to take the journey are our friends, Fliss and Mike, who will be traveling soon to bring their little Shauna home. Now our dear friends, Castor and Joyce, will be leaving in April or May to bring home three-year old Alex. By the way, Munch keeps calling him the baby even though I repeatedly explain to her that he is the same age as she is. Now there is news that our friends, Kristin and Dave, might get their long-awaited referral in about 12 weeks. We are over-the-top happy for all of them and can't wait to meet the new mei meis and di dis.

Moody Munch

2010-02-25T10:01:00.003-05:00

"You just annoying me, Mommy!" That was the conversation starter in the car the other day with Munch. This morning I was greeted with "Hey, I want to be left alone, Mommy!" Oh Lordy, Munch has been on a roll lately. The terrible twos certainly don't end at two. Threes are just as dreadful and are accompanied by a bigger body and an increase in sassy vocabulary. Time-outs occur daily over the simplest noncompliance...refusal to put on socks and shoes to go to school, insistence on wearing a summer dress in 63 degree weather and persistence in addressing Mommy and Daddy with the ubiquitous "Hey!" And that's just the start of the day. Nighttime is a another window of opportunity for Munch to test her boundaries not only with Mommy but with her unsuspecting daddy as well. Please tell me when August 14th rolls around, my otherwise wonderful daughter will magically morph into a harmonious, loving, brillant child. Is that too much to ask for, really??!!

And CNY Continues...

2010-02-20T19:12:00.004-05:00

folk dancers

Mrs. Ren was once our Mandarin language teacher before we brought Munch home from China. What a treat it was to meet up with her again!

The 3Ds made their way down to the local library today to enjoy another CNY program. Munch sat through the 60 minute performance without a hitch. We were treated to a recital of folk dancing, instrument playing and tai chi. Another round of gung hay fat choy to all of our family members and friends.

More Weekend Fun Pics

2010-02-16T14:30:00.011-05:00

three best buds waiting to enter the zoo

serving snacks for six

waiting to be seated for lunch

squeezing into the termite house

Mayan cuties

ice cream break zoo style

exploring with a stick at Green Cay Farms

posing with super cutie, Amelie, at the farm

picking cherry tomatoes

To say the least, we had a fun-filled extended weekend. On Saturday, we celebrated CNY with good friends at the park. On Sunday, we joined Miss Robin and Amelie for a delicious tour of Green Cay Farms. Then it was off to the zoo on Monday with Gi's best buds (Brea and Sammy) and her new friends, Alexis, Elliot, Devin and Miss Melissa. Nothing like sheparding six kids at a zoo. Hubs and I were dead tired after coming home from the zoo. Munch deemed it unnecessary to take a nap after coming home from her zoo adventure. So we packed her off to bed that night at 6:45 and baby was zonked out by 7:00. Bliss!

Happy New Year!

2010-02-13T16:50:00.003-05:00

Along with Miss Amelie, Munch made some new friends, Elliot, Alexis and Devin. With their bellies full of food and fun, the kids posed in front of the restaurant prior to going home.

Wow, I can't believe that we are celebrating our third Chinese New Year with Munch! We started out at a local park where all the adults were freezing and huddling around a warm bbq grill and the kids were blasting around in the chilly windy park. Then we headed over to a nearby mom-and-pop joint for a much needed Chinese lunch indoors. With all 13 of us, we nearly filled the compact restaurant to capacity. Luckily, the lunch crowd consisted only of us so the kids were able to roam and talk a bit more freely. We had a lovely time chatting and eating with our dear friends. May the year of the tiger continue to bring us all good health and prosperity. Gung hay fat choy!

Have You Ukulele Lately?

2010-01-23T15:45:00.003-05:00

For the past several weeks Munch has been asking for a guitar. I would listen to her repeated requests skeptically knowing full well the short life span of interest any three year old holds for any particular object. Luckily my good friend, Jessica, is a seasoned music teacher. So I went to her for some much needed advice or rather answers to some nagging questions. Should I buy a guitar for her? If so does she need lessons? How much of an investment? Is this just a passing phase? What should I do? Is it realistic for a three year old to play a guitar? I mean I don't want to be that mom that stiffles or ignores a budding interest in music, right? After a bit of hand-holding and reassurances, Auntie Jessie steers us to the often under appreciated but delightful ukulele. We walk into Chafin Music and immediately spot a display of ukuleles in different vibrant colors. The stars are aligned because there is a pink ukulele which Munch ooos and ahhs over. Auntie Jessie has Gi try out the instrument. It is the perfect size for mighty Munch. Gi assures me that she wants this "guitar." So $47 later, we drive home with a brand new pink ukulele. I'm relieved. I didn't have to spend a fortune to support Gi's musical fancy whether passing or not. And even if it were a short lived fancy, Auntie Jessie points out the permenancy of instruments when well taken care of. Well, Auntie Jessie, thank you for taking care of us. Munch walks around the house plucking away to her heart's content now. No music lessons required just yet. Auntie Jessie wants Munch to just enjoy the uk for now. As for Mommy, that's a different story. I do appreciate the homework assignment Auntie Jessie has given me, really. I have Hot Cross Buns almost mastered now and even attempt to play it for Gi occasionally when Munch is not demanding that she show me how "it's done" on the uk.

Off to China

2010-01-14T19:30:00.005-05:00

Madi, second from the left, is about to become a big sister.

We celebrated with Lisa, seated right, at a local Rotelli restaurant. She and hubby, Jimmy, are off to China on January 20th to bring little Daniel home.

No, the 3Ds are not going to China but the M family is! We'd like to congratulate Lisa, Jimmy and Madi again as they are about to welcome little Daniel into their family. Wishing you smooth sailing to and from China.

Brrr-day Celebration

2010-01-11T20:42:00.009-05:00

Happy birthday, Amelie! We had an arctic blast. Thank you for having us.

Gi trying out the walker before heading out to the ice rink

daddies and daddy's girls waiting to hit the ice

Gi, along with all her mei buddies, were real troopers skating around the rink with the help of a walker.

Who needs the walker more???

sleigh ride from Mr. Stew

We had a brrrr-fect time at Amelie's icy bday get-together. It was the first time Gi tried ice skating. A couple of slips, slides and cries later Gi was hooked especially after whizzing and zipping around the rink with Mr. Ed (Sammy's very cool daddy).

Hanging with My Auntie and Uncle

2010-01-03T15:44:00.011-05:00

We met up with the meis meis to watch the Princess and the Frog on New Year's eve. Alvin and the Chipmunks proved to be irrisistible for the meis.

Munch monopolized Uncle Mark's mocha shake while lunching at a local Vietnamese restaurant.

Gi was more than happy to comply when Auntie Sara asked her to don on a princess dress. Thank you, Sammy Pajammy, for the beautiful dress.

posing before our delicious Vietnamese noodles arrived

Munch can't pass by an eyeglass display without wanting to try on every pair. This display happened to be reading glasses. Auntie Sara snapped this shot at the Pearl Art Center in Lauderdale.

Gi put on this face when she was asked to turn off Barney in preparation for dinner time.

New Year's day dinner

chocolate ganache cupcakes for dessert

The 3Ds would like to wish all of our family and friends a prosperous and healthy new year!

Holiday Snap Shots

2009-12-29T22:07:00.011-05:00

on the road to visit friends

Munch trying on her new scooter

Hubs spent several hours straight putting together Munch's toys.

enjoying the spa Christmas evening

hanging with Daddy

posing with Poh Poh

jump

Munch adores her Uncle Mark.

Munch making Poh Poh play jump rope with her

trying on her new tiara

Thank you, Auntie Sara, for all the holiday pictures!

Mini Reunion

2009-12-28T16:09:00.002-05:00

This past weekend we traveled to Bradenton to meet up with good friends, Faith, and her mommy and daddy. Faith and Munch are adoption buddies going way back to Wuhan (Hubei), you see. They are only a week apart in age and are similar in other ways too. We had a marvelous time with the L family and can't wait to meet up again next year. Faith, you are the hostess with the mostest. Thank you for having us, Judy and John. Stay warm once you get back to Ohio.

American Sweetie Pie

2009-12-28T15:56:00.003-05:00

The 3Ds would like to send out congrats to little Amelie and her mommy and daddy. Last Tuesday, Amelie became the newest and cutest American citizen. The F-S family invited us to join them on this very special occasion. Munch took a good nap that day and thoroughly enjoyed herself with Amelie during the evening celebration. Red, white and blue become you, Amelie. We're so happy for you!

Christmas Show 2009

2009-12-16T16:58:00.005-05:00

Munch on her way to the Christmas show at her preschool

strutting to the stage to perform

Ms. Denise directs Munch and her classmates

After leaving the stage Munch complained that she wanted to sing Twinkle Twinkle Little Star instead...too funny.

Getting Into Holiday Spirits

2009-12-15T15:12:00.009-05:00

inside the giant Christmas tree

giant red teddy and Munch

Munch and giant Christmas tree

posing with Santa

father and daugther enjoying the scene in downtown Delray Beach

can't pass by a carousel without Munch wanting to get on

at a restaurant in downtown Delray Beach

Well, we made our yearly holiday trek to downtown Delray Beach. This year Munch really enjoyed all the lights and festivities. She even people-watched and expressed how much she liked being in the crowded area. We took the opportunity to grab a sinful burger and some fries at Doc's. Munch was fascinated by the "ice skating" rink there but alas they did not have her size in skates so we had to do with watching the other kids bump and slide around. The 3Ds would like to wish our family and friends a safe and jolly holiday season. Bring those referrals on for 2010!

Scrapbook Homies

2009-11-30T17:02:00.004-05:00

let's do lunch

Sammy PJ as Cinderella

How fun it is to scrapbook with the mommies while the girls play with each other! Gi and I can't wait for the next scrapbooking get-together with the gang.

Gobble Gobble

2009-11-26T20:20:00.008-05:00

turkey lurkey Munch

pilgrim Munch

Gi's Thanksgiving craft projects from school were used as table decoration.

the Chinese side of the family

Hubs before and after the turkey feast

Munch actually went for the wing. Hubs finished this drumstick.

The 3Ds would like to wish all our family and friends a happy Thanksgiving! Poh Poh, again, did the honors by marinating and roasting the big bird. This year we solved the issue of unwanted left-overs...Poh Poh roasted only half of the turkey. Munch grabbed the giant wing, picked and devour all the crunchy skin and declared herself "all done." Oh well. She ate some animal protein at least. Anyway, we are most thankful for Munch and our family and friends who provide us with love, support and guidance. Astounding how this is Munch's third Thanksgiving already. Time flies when you're blundering parents.

Happy Birthday Sammy Pajammy!

2009-11-22T13:33:00.002-05:00

A big shout-out to Sammy Pajammy. She is now officially four! The party was perfectly executed...great weather, great park, great food and great company. We also want to send big congrats to Mr. Ed now NB certified. Yeah! Thank you, Hawkins, for having us.

Santa At Last

2009-11-21T07:57:00.002-05:00

Score one for Mommy! For the last few months, Munch has been assuring me that she is no longer afraid of Santa. She explains, "I'm a big girl. I'm not going to cry." I beam at her with enthusiastic uh-ha(s) while trying to hide my skepticism. I know my Munch...she's going to pull a bait-and-switch on me, giving me enough hope to approach mall Santa with her and then melting down into a crazed fright. So Poh Poh and I take Munch to the mall yesterday for a free breakfast at one of the fast-food eateries. Gi catches a glimpse of Santa from afar and again tells us that she is not afraid because she is three now. Buoyed by Gi's repeated declarations of new found bravery, we enter Santa's Polar Express studio. No sign of fight-or-flight instincts from Munch. Munch is apprehensive but in a curious way. Gi and I high-five Santa as an introduction. She answers Santa's questions diligently. What do you want for Christmas? A new Princess camera. (Ok, I did not expect this response from Munch). Have you been a good girl? Yes. Did you brush your teeth this morning? (Perfect question because Munch usually makes us earn our parenting badges when it comes to brushing her teeth). Yes, I did. She, too, seem surprised that Santa inquired about her teeth brushing. At this point, I gingerly put Gi on Santa's lap and away we go. After a couple of shots, we get the picture that we want. No tears, no squirming, no frightful fleeing. Big sigh of relief from Poh Poh and Mommy. Finally!

Gi-ism 3.0

2009-11-15T07:36:00.003-05:00

"Mommy, you dolt and I children."

"We humming beans."

"I ov waddermeldon."

"Peter go to my cool."

"I go to bal-li-a."

"Mommy, where you jubella?"

"I ov tsunami."

"Mommy and Daddy eat shi-shi."

"Bue-di-o"

Translation for the uninitiated

"Mommy, you're an adult and I'm a child."

"We are human beings."

"I love watermelon."

"Peter goes to my school."

"I go to ballet."

"Mommy, where is your umbrella?"

"I love salami."

"Mommy and Daddy eat sushi."

"Beautiful"

Cultural Buddies

2009-11-11T15:26:00.004-05:00

We have to thank Ms. Robin and Amelie for turning us on to the Parker Playhouse and their kid-friendly shows. So far, the four of us have enjoyed Charlotte's Web, Fushu Daiku drumming and so-to-be-enjoyed, the Shanghai Circus. After the shows, we go to a nearby park where the girls can frolic some more before heading for home. Thanks for the the great pics, Robin!

Snow White and the Two Big Dwarfs

2009-11-02T21:24:00.009-05:00

Another fun Halloween has come and passed. Munch started her Halloween this year by attending her school's dance party where she celebrated with some of her classmates and teachers. The following night, Gi went trick or treating with her daddy and then helped her mommy pass out candy on the driveway while feasting on pizza and other sugary delights. This year Munch opted to be Snow White while Hubs and I complimented her new persona by donning our lazily constructed costumes of Sleepy and Sneezy. Munch finally went to bed after 10:00 p.m. and proceeded to wake up at her usual time the next morning. No rest for the weary, right? Hope all our family and friends had a fun-filled Halloween. Gi is already talking about what she would like to be next year.

Boo at the Zoo

2009-10-24T16:55:00.004-04:00

Miss Butterfly/Snow White and Miss Hello Kitty Kat sans doctor costume

Gi and Amelie are getting their face painted. No fear or fuss from both girls.

We made our annual trek to the Palm Beach Zoo to meet up with Ms. Robin and her cutie, Amelie, for some Halloween fun. Gi donned her Snow White costume (courtesy of Vovo Lydia). Amelie shined as an ER MD complete with stethoscope and syringe. Both girls consumed copious amounts of candy and even had their faces painted. Nothing like a little Halloween fun in humid 90 degree Florida weather. Happy Halloween everyone!

Rite of Passage

2009-10-23T15:12:00.010-04:00

the consultation

ready, set, pierce!

Poh Poh admiring the handi-work

ta-da!

certified glamorous

relaxing at home

My Munch got her ears pierced!!! Ever since seeing her bff with earrings, Gi has been begging me to have her ears done. So we had it done today at the Sweet and Sassy kiddie salon (Thank you, Ms. Lori, for the recommendation). Munch was a champ! No crying or fussing the entire time. She picked out a pretty pink crystal flower stud. Afterwards, she was awarded with a glitter star on her cheek, glitter for her hair, a fancy lolly, and a certificate with a her picture on it. The girl was in 7th heaven!

Panther Fan

2009-10-23T08:33:00.002-04:00

Gi went to her first hockey game this past Wednesday night. We were not sure how she was going to do since she was operating on only a 40 minute nap that day. But the Munch did swell. She clapped and danced to the music, watched how the Zamboni worked and even got a signed poster of the Ice Dancers. On the flip side Munch also witnessed a couple of fights between members of the two teams. She got to see first hand how fighting can lead to a stay in the "time-out" box. On our way home, Gi promptly fell asleep in her carseat and didn't even fuss twice when we laid her in her bed at home. She snoozed until 8:00 a.m. the next morning. What a luxury that was for Hubs and me!

Blue Couch Photo

2009-10-17T20:17:00.003-04:00

Another great mei mei birthday party was had this afternoon. Alex and her mei meis celebrated her 5th birthday with lots of fun, games, food and laughter. Munch was shy at first but quickly warmed up to the festivities. Happy birthday, Alex! Thank you for having us.

Angelina Ballerina

2009-10-12T19:35:00.012-04:00

Well, this past Friday, the parents were finally allowed to enter the little dance studio to observe how their munches were doing in ballet class. Hubs and I were so excited to finally get a glimpse of what exactly three year olds do in a ballet session. I was amazed how these tots were able to follow directions for 45 minutes! Munch did us proud. She followed directions and performed the required routine most of the time. And on top of that, we parents learned a few new ballet terms. Now we just have to work on convincing Munch to keep her hair pulled back with an elastic headband for 45 minutes.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eN4j5WnuVXk

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QGDCyp9zBmw

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RaEfCpeTrMg

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LP3udF1TI2w

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bqp36_K-OQw

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OxwufJ90JF0

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=haR6IjfOMK8

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PiC8btOAGz0

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HRk37xzgmMM

By the Light of the Moon...

2009-10-05T21:25:00.009-04:00

Another year of Harvest Moon has come and passed with our Munch. Last night, we had a rollicking good time with our usual gang of good friends at a local Pei Wei restaurant. We dined, laughed and celebrated our lives with our little ones and the little ones to come. In fact, we might have a new member coming on board sometime in May of next year. That's right, Kristin and Dave, we're talking about your little Amelie! We want to thank all our good friends for showering the princesses with love, attention, good humor and lovely company. May we always celebrate Harvest Moon together.

So Spit It Out

2009-09-25T21:31:00.003-04:00

the little spitfire here guzzling apple juice with her bud Sammy

The ole Munch is keeping hubs and I laughing and guessing everyday. Her latest vocabulary acquisition keeps us amazed and amused. Several days ago, we tell Munch that she has to nap first before she goes to a birthday party. With hands outstretch in a stance indicative of a great orator, Munch states, "No, Mommy Daddy. This the deal. Me play then me go to party. Okay? Okay." While eating at a restaurant tonight, Munch takes her apple sauce covered teaspoon, thoroughly wipes it on a napkin and announces "good as new, good as new." She repeats this motion several more times during the course of dinner. When taken by surprise or utterly enjoying a moment, Munch will squeal "oh me god!" And let's not forget about the potty sector. "Me no need help, Mommy. Close door. Me need pirate-si (privacy in Gi lingo). Me going make big poopie!" Nice, isn't it? You know how before you became a parent, other experienced parents advised you to stop using profanity once the kids reach a certain age and get stricken with the parrot syndrome. Take The Advice. Hubs and I are still learning the hard way especially when Gi points at someone in a store and loudly asks "Mommy, what dat moron doing?"

Bye Bye Vovos

2009-09-19T14:37:00.003-04:00

Well, the vovos should be enroute to Brazil by now. We miss them already. All the Ds went out for an all-American meal one last time last night. We filled our bellies with greasy but yummy burgers and fries at Five Guys. It would be great if they can be a part of our summer every year helping Gi and Hubs celebrate their birthdays. Wishing the vovos a safe and pleasant journey back to Sao Paulo!

Scores of Birthdays

2009-09-16T22:01:00.007-04:00

Munch modeling the "party" dress she picked out to wear for Kai's bday bash

carpooling to Kai's party with good bud, Sammy

having lots of fun at the bash

helping newly forty-four Daddy blow out his candle

September is a busy month for us birthday-wise. First, Munch helped her mei mei friend, Kai, celebrate her big four. Next, it was Daddy's turn to blow out the candles with a little help from his number one daughter. This coming Saturday another mei mei friend, Madi, will also be celebrating her big day. Unfortunately Munch will not be able to join in the fun as it is on the same day as the vovos' departure for Brazil. Happy birthday, Madi!!! At the end of this month, Munch is due to join one of her classmates for more birthday fun. Oh boy, life as a toddler sure is exciting! Can I be a kid again???

So Many Happenings

2009-09-01T14:50:00.007-04:00

Munch on her first day of class in the three year old room

Our trusted old friend being towed away to a salvage yard. So long...

Gi is in the background near the ballet teacher.

just before taking off to her ballet class

playing musical hat with Vovo Joe Joe

Well, we had a very eventful August to say the least. We continue to have a great time with the vovos. They are getting to know Munch and vice versa. Our trusted old friend, our 1999 Lexus, was severely rear-ended by a 79 year old lady one afternoon in Broward County. Her insurance company inspected the damage and proceeded to total the car. Our new trusted old friend is now a 2006 Nissan Altima. Luckily, no one was hurt in the accident and we are very grateful for that. Munch also started her school year in her three year old class with Ms. Denise and Ms. Linda. Except for a few teary mornings in the beginning, she seems to be enjoying her new class. Munch also started her new ballet class with tutu and all. When she comes home, she is more than happy to show us all the moves she has learned with Ms. Janae. Hubs and I can't wait to attend the recital.

Three as Can Be

2009-08-16T23:03:00.011-04:00

On the day of her birthday, Munch started her morning with some fruit loops dipped in cream cheese and some slices of peach.

Before going out for her birthday dinner, Munch received another surprise---this beautiful shirt from her vovos.

Gi grabbed a roll and proceeded to stick her crayon in it to make a birthday cake.

Pizza---Munch's favorite!

about to dig into the pizza with Mommy

the three amigas sitting contentedly on hub's lap during Ms. Carol Ann's show

shaking and rolling with Ms. Carol Ann

helping Ms. Carol Ann guess the musical instruments

parachuting beach balls

First, the Three Ds would like to thank all of our family and friends (big and pint size) for coming to Munch's third birthday celebration yesterday. We had a rocking good time. Ms. Carol Ann, Munch's Kindermusik teacher, kept Gi and her buddies shaking, rattling and rolling for a good long time. Our baby is growing up and fast! Sniff, sniff.

To Tally and Back

2009-08-11T14:02:00.030-04:00

The day before we left, a good friend of Auntie Sara's, Charlie, took us out on a two hour tour of the St. Marks River. What a treat...we got to see five manatees!!! Thank you, Mr. Charlie!

Munch did very well on the two hour river ride. She wore the life vest the entire time. That's my girl!

While waiting for our breakfast at the Silver Bullet Diner, Munch pretended to take our orders.

Hubs and Vovo Joe Joe fished all day long on Lake Talquin. What a beautiful place!

Munch enjoyed a nice cool Italian soda at the Black Dog Cafe on Lake Ella.

The other 3Ds enjoyed a fabulous southern fried seafood dinner at the Catfish Pad, a local hole-in-the-wall joint.

The 3Ds waited hungrily for their fried seafood dinner at the Catfish Pad.

Munch tried on a hand knitted hat by Ms. Paula, a local yarn merchant and good friend of Auntie Sara's.

Munch zeroed in on Vovo Lydia's soda while enjoying a Mexican lunch at Cabos.

Gi did a great job kayaking with Uncle Mark. She was a real trooper!

Munch decided to pull Gon Gon along at the Tallahassee Natural History Museum.

Mommy and Munch enjoyed a view of Tallahassee from the 22nd floor of the new capital building.

Many thanks to Ms. Maria who gave Gi "Bingo." Gi had instant adoration for Maria after receiving the adorable gift.

Gi posed solemnly in the old Florida Supreme Court.

Gi invaded Auntie Sara and Uncle Mark's bed everyday.

posing in the old capital building

playing in "grandma's attic" at the Florida History Museum

Munch helped Auntie Sara with the bird feeder.

Mommy and Munch enjoyed a lovely evening at the potluck get-together of the Tallahassee Artists' League.

posing at the San Luis Mission historic site

touring with both grandmas at the San Luis Mission historic site

goofing around at Auntie Sara and Uncle Mark's house

helping Auntie Sara in the yard

Munch absolutely adores her Uncle Mark.

Well, we just spent a wonderful past week in Tallahassee where my sister and bro-in-law live. We loaded up our mini van rental with everyone and everything except for the kitchen sink. Gi got to spend some quality time with her auntie and uncle doing all sorts of outdoorsie things. And, of course, if the Changs are involved, there was a lot of eating going on too. Big kisses and hugs for Auntie Sara and Uncle Mark for the wonderful townhouse rental and superb hospitality.

Welcome Vovos

2009-07-26T20:45:00.007-04:00

Munch was most excited to see the vovos at the airport.

stealing some of Vovo Joe Joe's breakfast

celebrating Vovo Joe Joe's birthday

snuggling with Vovo Lydia

like father like son---always on the computer

The vovos are finally here for their two month stay with us. Yesterday, the three Ds trekked down to MIA for their arrival. Munch was most excited about their visit and has stuck to them like velcro ever since. Tonight we celebrated Vovo Joe Joe's 72nd birthday with a big dinner at Poh Poh and Gon Gon's house. Happy birthday, Vovo Joe Joe!

GOTCHA

2009-07-23T21:36:00.005-04:00

Gi got a "CEC" bear as a Gotcha present.

banging away on one of the games

our first Gotcha Day July 23, 2007

The three Ds would like to give a shout out to all the families in our travel group---Happy Gotcha Day! Hard to believe but time sure has flown by for us. Today we celebrated two years of familyhood with Gi. Hubs and I decided to let Munch pick the restaurant for our little celebration. Chuck E Cheese was her choice (yeah, we saw that coming). Off we went for a very colorful and noisy evening of games, rides, so-so pizza and unlimited soda consumption. Munch was in seventh heaven. We love you to pieces, Gi. Looking forward to #3.

Heat Relief

2009-07-19T20:57:00.003-04:00

Welcome to the Florida heat! Munch spent part of the morning running through the fountain at a local zoo.

Demands and Miscommunications

2009-07-14T21:56:00.002-04:00

I'm sure some of you mommies out there can relate to my daily challenges with my ever clever Gi. The other day, Munch races to her bathroom, strips down to nothing and sits on her "big girl" toilet. With a sure voice, she announces to me that she is going to "make poopy." O.k., no problem. The standard procedure is that she wipes herself when she pees and I wipe her when she makes #2. She notifies me that she is finished and waits for me to attend to her. That day for whatever reason I decided to be a lazy-daisy. Instead of going the extra step to get a wet wipe to clean her, I just grab a wad of toilet paper and proceed with my motherly duty. Before I can even dispose of the wad, Gi screams that there is "paypa in my bum." She starts to navigate her fingers toward her tush for some investigative work. I stop her immediately and offer to check for her (nothing worse than an active child with soiled fingers...you know what I mean?). I visually scan the area of concern, see no wayward tp hanging out and assures Munch that all is right in the tushy world. Not satisfied with my cursory inspection, she insists that I keep checking. Oh boy, this is where motherhood gets ugly isn't it? I take a deep breath and reluctantly do what one might consider a tushy parting of the red sea. "There's nothing there, Gi. You're all clean," I assure Munch. With a sweet smile on her face, she tells me ok and hops off her stepping stool. Now why couldn't this child believe me when I first told her that her behind was spotless?

Hubs is watching t.v. in bed while Gi is running around in our bedroom. A commercial comes on about upset stomachs and other related ailments. Hubs, being a practitioner of potty humor, can't resist and asks Munch if she has diarrhea. "Diarrhea???" Munch asks in puzzlement. "Me no diarrhea, Daddy. Me Gigi," Munch tells her father with great indignation. Having his joke fall flat on the ground, Hubs decides that its best to stay quiet sometimes instead of inadvertently raising the ire of your two year old daughter.

Me Had So Much Fun!

2009-07-11T21:01:00.005-04:00

That was what Munch said when she was placed in her car seat after two hours plus of play with hostess Sammy and Brea. The three mommies got a chance to catch-up and chat while the daddies entertained the Spice Girls who were actually quite good at entertaining each other. Thank you, Hawkins, for hosting this highly successful playdate. Great pictures, W!

Silly Pics

2009-07-10T21:50:00.003-04:00

bubble bath al fresco

munching on cheese au naturale

Face Lift

2009-07-05T15:47:00.006-04:00

Munch loved playing in the empty cabinets.

The color is Zodiaq's smokey topaz.

I think I can actually bathe Gi in my new sink!

newly painted cabinets

Our 11 year old kitchen finally got a little face lift. Hubs and I decided to replace our old beat-up laminate countertop with a solid quartz surface. To save some money Hubs went to work tearing out the old backsplash as well as the countertop himself. We also decided to repaint our old cabinets rather then get new ones---another big money saver there. To keep Munch out of the kitchen, we put Barney on continuous play and went to work. Our old cast iron kitchen sink must have weighed over 150 lbs! Once we removed all the stuff out of the cabinets and drawers, Munch went to town playing in the empty cabinets. She even got out her little tool set and pretended to fix the cabinet doors. After the countertop was installed I asked Munch if she liked the new countertop. Her reply was "Me ove it!"

Happy 4th

2009-07-05T08:44:00.002-04:00

Munch, Brea and Kyle admiring the fireworks from inside

We must thank Brea's family again for another fun 4th of July celebration. Munch had a blast with her BFF over at Gram Vicky and Gramp John's house. The fireworks, as usual, were spectacular. Happy 4th to all our family and friends!

Amen!

2009-06-26T14:08:00.004-04:00

Hubs strikes again. The other night, the three of us are finishing our dinner when Hubs notices that Munch is playing like she is praying again. Mr. Iconoclast immediately seizes the opportunity to instruct her on the "proper" way to give thanks. "Gi, follow like Daddy," Hubs instructs. "Rub-a-dub thanks for the grub," he continues. Munch looks at him with giggles in her eyes and complies. "Rub dub tank yuuuu gub! Ole man." I playfully tell Munch that Daddy is not such an old man and that it's not polite to call someone old. She puts her little hands together again and says ole man once more. Hubs and I stare at each other with a bit of puzzlement. Gi eyes the both of us and echoes ole man repeatedly. Then it dawns on us that our little Munch is not obstinately insulting her daddy but rather is saying "amen." Hubs and I blow up with laughter. Gi, finding our laughter as a sure sign of approval, now replicates the phrase over and over. Hubs nods with admiration to his filial daughter and is thoroughly content that his teachings have met with such a receptive audience.

Happy Father's Day 2009

2009-06-21T21:54:00.003-04:00

Gon Gon and Hubs with Munch

Happy father's day to all the daddies that I love and admire. We sat down to a somewhat unconventional father's day dinner tonight---yummy roasted lamb served gyro style. Stuck a dish of pasta in there just for Munch in case she poo poo the lamb. Hubs gobbled up several servings while my parents ate moderately as usual. Gi immediately fancied the flat bread stuffing it with a ravioli and tortellini along with a slice of lamb and lime. I had to take the wedge of lime out to show her that it was to be squeezed onto the lamb and not to be eaten whole inside her gyro. Munch didn't finish her "gyro" but took enough bites to satisfy Hubs and I. After some coaching Munch wished Gon Gon and Hubs a happy father's day and raised her juice bottle to all of our glasses. What a daughter!

No Sleeping Beauty

2009-06-06T19:47:00.003-04:00

It's 7:45 p.m. and Munch is watching Diego slurping up her ice cream. I quietly inform her that when Diego is over, we will take a shower and get ready for night-night. She looks at me with complete puzzlement and asks, "Why? Me go night-night already!!!" I explain to her that yes, indeed, she did take a nap earlier today but that now it is time for night-time night-night. She looks at me with her chocolate smeared face and utters with great disappointment, "Uh-oh." She returns to her ice cream sullenly probably hoping that I don't notice that Diego is over.

My First Circus

2009-06-06T14:30:00.003-04:00

We must thank Robin and Amelie again. The four of us met in Sunrise and enjoyed a fabulous performance of Cirque du Soleil's Saltimbanco. Wow, what a feast for the eyes and ears! Amelie and Gi did a bang-up job of sitting through the performance often pointing, commenting and just generally being engaged. They even got some of the humor in the show and clapped along with everyone else! They shared their snacks and drinks and a seat...neither of them was heavy enough to hold down the seat by themselves. During intermission, the two cuties danced wildly just outside of the arena seating area laughing and screaming with delight. No tantrums, meltdowns or an ounce of fear during the whole performance. Thank you Robin and Amelie for a wonderful afternoon.

Napping with Daddy and Friends

2009-05-31T20:17:00.002-04:00

Gi loves to nap with her daddy on weekends. Today she decided to have company. Both daddy and daughter snoozed away shortly after posing for this pic.

Last Day of School

2009-05-29T08:46:00.004-04:00

Miles Davis in the making?

Clang!

Well, yesterday was the last day of school for Gi in her two year old class. Come August she will be in the three year old class. I can't believe it...my little Munch is going to turn three!!! Other parents have always told me that time flies and it is so true. I see my Munch developing so many new skills and gaining so much confidence. I'm so grateful for every minute I have to watch her grow in my front row seat.

Me Want Hair

2009-05-24T20:46:00.003-04:00

I'm sitting caddy corner to Gi at the dinner table, both of us eating our breakfast. We are chatting, the two of us still in our chosen form of pajamas. My choice happens to be a beat-up old tank top and my customary drawers aka frumpy mom-wear 101. Our daily topic of growing up tall and strong comes up as usual to Gi's delight. She squeals something unintelligible at first so I ask her to repeat it. She points her tiny index finger to the right side of my body and bellows something again. Too embarrassed to show my daughter that I still can't comprehend fully what she is saying to me I cheerfully look behind me at the armoir and asks her if she wants something from the inside of it. Not deterred by my linguistic inapptitude, she merrily hollers and points again. This time I notice that she is pointing at my upper right arm (not the armoir behind me) and can make out the the phrases, me want hair, me big girl, me eat all my food. Well, it finally dawns on me that my Munch is telling me that she wants hair in her underarm just like Mommy. Charming isn't it? Recovering quickly from Munch's astute but damning observation of my occasional lack of feminine upkeep, I continue the conversation.

"Er, yes, that's right. If you want to be a big girl and have hair in your underarm, you should eat all your food."

"Me big girl. Me want hair. Me eat all my cereal, Mommy!"

"That's my big girl! I'm so happy to hear you say that!"

Munch turns her attention back to her bowl of cereal and manages to eat half of it. She announces that she is all done and gets out of her chair by herself. Oh well, good intentions is everything, right?

Happy Birthday, Auntie Say-wah!

2009-05-15T21:13:00.006-04:00

" Happy birthday, Auntie Sara!"

Yes, that's how Munch pronounces her auntie's name. Anyway, Gi and I would like to wish Auntie Sara a happy birthday tomorrow. Big hugs and smooches to you!